After those relationships ended I never harbored ill will towards them. In fact I will always be available if they ever need me.
A while back a friend asked me why I thought relationships failed. I could have given a DR Phil sound bite answer. Fall out of love, infidelity, etc. But those are easy answers. The real truth is not always so simple. We are complex beings that engage in organic relationships which continuously change in some form or another. We start off in one direction and end up in another. It is neither black and white or cut and dry. We are evolving and developing. So why is it so hard to be open and honest with our feelings?